Amanda M. Payne Nurse · Teacher · Builder
Door two · Daughters at the Gates

Women who keep the fire, the watch, and the gates.

Amanda M. Payne with a room of women
Daughters at the Gates
What this is

Picture a room full of women who mean it when they say "I'll pray for you." That's Daughters at the Gates.

We aren't a prayer list. We're a watch. We gather, we stand, and we intercede for our families, our cities, and the houses God has given us. And we teach each other how to keep doing it without falling apart.

This is where most of my heart is this season. If God is calling you to the wall, this is your door.

Three words you'll hear in this house

They might sound unfamiliar at first. Here's what each one means in plain English.

Priest

You keep the fire. You stay at the altar, bring people before God, and keep the flame lit when nobody else is watching.

LEVITICUS 6:12–13
Watchman

You keep the watch. You see what's coming before it gets here, and you say so.

EZEKIEL 3:17
Gatekeeper

You keep the gate. You decide what gets in and what doesn't, and you open the door for the ones who belong.

1 CHRONICLES 9:27

Here's the surprising part: these aren't three different women. They're three things one woman does. In Hebrew, all three come from a single verb, shamar. To keep.

Who this is for

You wake up at 3 AM, and you know it isn't insomnia.

You carry other people's burdens and don't know where to put them.

You've been praying alone for years, and you're ready for a house.

You already lead women, and you want to be formed to do it well.

You don't have to be an experienced intercessor. You just have to be willing.

The monthly rhythm

The whole month on one page.

Everything we do runs on a monthly rhythm. Here's the whole month on one page, so you never have to wonder where to be.

All online · All Eastern Time
1st Saturday
9:00 AMFormation Altar
11:45 PMMidnight Fire
2nd Saturday
9:00 – 11:00 AMThe Builders' Table
11:45 PMMidnight Fire
3rd Saturday
9:00 AMFormation Altar
11:45 PMMidnight Fire
Last Saturday
11:45 PM – 6:00 AMKeepers Arise

New here? Formation Altar, first or third Saturday, 9 AM. That is the door.

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Formation Altar

Learn what God says — and let Him build you — before you are asked to carry anything.

1st and 3rd Saturdays · 9:00 AM ET · OnlineRegister for Formation Altar →

Formation means being shaped on purpose.

Most of us were handed a role before anybody built us for it. You got asked to lead, serve, pray, or carry something — and nobody ever taught you how, or made sure you were steady enough to hold it.

Formation Altar is the opposite order. You are taught and built first. Nothing is asked of you here.

What actually happens

We open in prayer. I teach — an actual lesson, working through Scripture, part of a series that builds week over week. Then we take it apart together: what it means, what it looks like in a real life, and what to do with it this week. We close in prayer.

You can keep your camera off. You do not have to speak. You are not called on.

Four words for what we're doing
Alignget your life lined up with what God actually said, instead of what you assumed or absorbed from someone else.
Equiplearn the Word well enough to stand on it when you are alone.
Empowerwalk in what you were given instead of waiting for permission.
Advancetake actual ground. Not someday. This month.
Who this is for

Anyone new. This is the front door.

You do not need experience, a title, a good-sounding testimony, or a church background. You do not need to be doing well. Some of the women here have prayed for thirty years. Some have never prayed out loud. Both belong.

If you are not sure where you fit with us — come here.

What to bring: your Bible, something to write with, and coffee.

Midnight Fire

Weekly prayer, late at night, with people who mean it.

Every Saturday · 11:45 PM ET · OnlineRegister for Midnight Fire →
What actually happens

We come together at 11:45 at night and we pray. Worship, then intercession — for our families, our cities, the things weighing on us, and whatever the Lord puts in the room.

It is led by our DAG leaders, not only by me. Through the rest of 2026 we are also hosting guest leaders from around the world — men and women who pray, joining us from their own countries and their own houses, so we are not only praying for the nations but praying with them.

Why midnight?

Two honest reasons.

It is quiet. The house is down, the phone is still, and nothing is competing for you. For most women it is the only hour of the week that is genuinely uninterrupted.

And Scripture keeps putting people there. Paul and Silas sang at midnight. The bridegroom came at midnight. Something about that hour shows up again and again as the hour God moves in.

Who this is for

Anyone who wants to pray with other people. New or seasoned.

If you have been praying alone for years and you are tired of it being only you — this is the room.

What to expect

Come as you are — in your pajamas, in your car, in your kitchen. Camera optional. You do not have to pray out loud. You can listen, write, and agree quietly and you will have done the thing.

It does not run all night. That is Keepers Arise, once a month. This is a weekly gathering — come, pray, go to bed.

The Builders' Table

Training for women who are going to lead their own group.

2nd Saturday · 9:00 – 11:00 AM ET · OnlineRegister for the Builders' Table →
First — what a "house" is

When we say house, we do not mean a building. In Hebrew the word is bayit, and it means three things at once: a dwelling, the family inside it, and the place God lives.

So a DAG house is a small group of women who pray together, watch together, and grow together, led by one woman who has been formed to lead them. Houses are named for the city their leader lives in — DAG-Indianapolis, DAG-Detroit — because a house belongs to a place and to real people, not to a platform.

We are starting houses right now. This table is where their leaders get built.

What actually happens

It is a table, not a service. Two hours, seated, working. I teach a module, we discuss it honestly, and you leave with something specific to do before the next one.

The first module covers three things:

WhoWho has God actually assigned to you? Not everyone. By name.
HowHow do you invite them? What to say, and what not to promise.
WhatWhat is the work? What a priest, a watchman, and a gatekeeper actually do inside a house.
Who this is for

Women who are going to lead, or are already leading, and need to be built for it.

And an honest word: this is not the place to start with us. Come to Formation Altar first — for a few months, not a few weeks. You cannot lead a house you have never sat in. The table is for the ones who have been formed and are being sent.

If you already lead your own ministry or organization and you are not looking to be formed but to build alongside people who understand the weight — reach out. That is a different conversation and there is room for it.

What to bring: your Bible, a notebook, and the names of the women you believe are yours.

Inaugural watch · Oct 31

Keepers Arise

One night a month, we stay awake and pray until morning.

Last Saturday of the month · 11:45 PM – 6:00 AM ET · OnlineRegister for Keepers Arise →
What this is

Six hours of prayer, once a month, through the night.

We start fifteen minutes before midnight and we pray until the sun is coming up. Worship, intercession, teaching, and time to stand for your family, your city, and what God has put in your hands.

It closes out the month and opens the next. By the time the sun comes up, you are in a new month and you did not sleep through the handoff.

Why all night?

Jesus named four watches of the night: "in the evening, at midnight, at the crowing of the rooster, or in the morning" — and then He said, "Watch therefore" (Mark 13:35).

We take the last two. The rooster and the morning — the two He warned us we would sleep through. Those are the hours nobody wants, and that is exactly why we take them.

Why "Keepers"?

Three words for one job.

The priest keeps the charge. The watchman keeps the watch. The gatekeeper keeps the gate.

In Hebrew they all come from one verb — shamar — to keep. They are not three different women. They are three things one woman does, and this is the night we do all three.

Who this is for

Anyone willing to stay up and pray. You do not need experience and you do not need to have done anything like this before.

Can I actually do this?

Yes. And here is the honest version.

Come and goNobody is checking. If you make three hours, you prayed for three hours.
Sleep afterMost of us do. Plan for it — do not schedule anything Sunday morning.
Nap firstSleep from 8 to 11 and come in fresh. That is not cheating. That is planning.
Be quietListen, write, agree. You are not required to lead anything.
3:00–4:30 AMThe hardest stretch. Everyone feels it. It passes. Stay on the call.

Come once and see. You will know after one.

What to bring: your Bible, something to write with, water, a quiet place, and a blanket.

Inaugural watch: Saturday, October 31, 11:45 PM — into Sunday, November 1, 6:00 AM.

The monthly watch and prayer guide

Ever wished someone would just hand you the words? Every month I write a guide that carries what God is saying for that month: the Hebrew calendar, the prophetic word, the Scripture, and the prayers themselves, written out so you can pray them aloud.

The prayers always move in five steps (petition, renounce, command, declare, decree) and cover your life, ministry, family, business, health, and finances.

1 · Petition2 · Renounce3 · Command4 · Declare5 · Decree

Every gathering that month runs on this guide. If you only do one thing, make it this.

Get this month's guide →
What a DAG house is

A house isn't a meeting. In Hebrew, bayit means the building, the family, and the dwelling place of God all at once.

A DAG house is a small group of women, led by someone who has been formed to lead, who pray, keep watch, and grow together. Each house is named for the city its leader lives in: DAG-[City].

We're raising up houses right now. If you sense you're called to lead one, the Builders' Table is where that starts.

Three ways women come to Daughters at the Gates
1
You're new to all of this.

You've never kept a watch and you're not sure you belong. You do. Start at Formation Altar.

2
You sense you're meant to found a house.

I'm taking a limited number this cycle. Succession is taught from day one, and there's no branding requirement. Your house is yours. Start at Formation Altar, then come to the Builders' Table.

3
You already lead your own organization.

You don't need formation. You need collaboration, and people who understand the weight. Come to Midnight Fire, then reach out.

The one next step

Come exactly as you are. Just come ready to stand.

Jehovah-Shammah. The LORD is here.

Start at Formation Altar →